Are You Ready For The Journey
My Process
I would like to be able to help everyone — but that is not possible.
My time is limited and shared between research, development, and my practice. For this reason, I carefully select the people I can actually help.
Before accepting someone as a client, I need to be certain of two things:
that you are genuinely ready, and that you understand what this work requires. This is not comfort-oriented work. It is a demanding process of personal transformation.
You will be asked to go beyond your habitual ways of functioning. You will be asked to question the stories you tell yourself about who you are, the masks you wear, and the automatic patterns that you have adapted since childhood.
You will encounter parts of yourself that have been avoided, rejected, or silenced.
This work involves recognition, acceptance, integration, and reconciliation.
The language of the “hero’s journey” is often used to describe this process. Not as a fantasy, but as a psychologically real sequence of inner thresholds that human beings have crossed throughout history.
Concretely, this involves sustained self-observation, disciplined engagement, and the capacity to remain present when discomfort arises.
If you are looking for reassurance, advice, or occasional conversations to “feel better,” this framework will not be suitable.
No Traditional Armchair Therapy
In my experience, meeting once or twice a month for a 50-minute conversation is insufficient to produce deep and lasting change. Intellectual understanding alone rarely alters deeply ingrained patterns. Transformation requires continuity, accountability, and active engagement between sessions.
My work is structured, experiential, and long-term.
How the Process Unfolds
Even if you believe you are ready, I need concrete elements before committing to working together. This is why we begin with a one-week trial period, during which neither you nor I are committed to continuing.
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Step 1: Initial Application
You will complete a short form introducing yourself — who you are, where you come from, and what you do. Nothing deep at this stage.
Step 2: Statement of Intention
You will then be asked to take time with yourself and write me a letter.
This letter answers three simple questions:
• What is happening in your life right now?
• Where are you today in your personal and inner journey?
• Where do you sincerely wish to go?
I will read your letter carefully and respond with questions. You will be asked to answer them thoughtfully.
Step 3: Commitment Tasks
During the week, you will receive a limited number of concrete tasks. These may include:
• Writing down two or three significant dreams (recent or older)
• Responding in writing to specific reflective questions
• Short writing exercises designed to assess your attention, honesty, and ability to follow through
This week is free. Its purpose is to bring clarity on both sides: to determine whether I can truly be of help to you, and whether you are able and willing to do the work required.
Commitment
If we decide to continue, we commit together for a minimum of one year.
There are no “classic” therapy sessions. Instead:
• You will receive weekly assignments
• I will follow up with you each week (by phone, email, or video call)
• In-person sessions are possible if you are within reasonable distance and if I judge them appropriate for the current phase of your work
This is an active, evolving process — not a service to be consumed.